Oct 10 2008
Baby Learning and Playing skills at different Age Developmental stages
Children need to develop a range of skills in order to utilise play experiences to the full. These can be considered in six areas and generally, there needs to be a fairly balanced development in each one. The six areas are:
Social — where the child shows an interest in other people and begins to develop empathy
Communication — where the child wants to communicate through verbal and non-verbal communication
Fine motor skills — where the child develops fine motor co-ordination and dexterity
Gross motor skills — which are related to mobility and body posture Imagination and thinking skills — needed for pretend play
Attention — where the child develops concentration and focused attention
It can be very useful to use the following tables as a checklist to consider children’s strengths and the areas in which they may need support at different ages and stages.
Developmental stages for social and communication
Approx. age |
Social skills |
Communication skills |
| 0-6 months | Child develops feelings of security and trust if given consistent approaches. | Child enjoys watching faces and will initiate expressions. Enjoys soothing calm sounds. |
| 6-18 months | Child begins to recognise him or herself as a separate person.
Begins to recognise that certain actions produce an effect. Enjoys repetitive rhymes and anticipating actions. |
Child begins to babble. Will imitate sounds and gestures. Will often practise sounds on their own. |
| 18 months-3 years | Parallel play. Will play alongside other children. Can initiate play with adults by bringing a toy to an adult. Can be led into activities by an adult and will join in. | Joins in with rhymes and action songs. Enjoys repetition of
Stories. Can name pictures and make sounds in imitation, e.g. animals. Can talk about actions. |
| 3-4 years | Joins in with groups. Initiates contact with other children and plays with others. | Knows words of songs and
Rhymes and can sing unaided. Can talk about an object or event without it being there. |
| 4-5 years | Co-operative play — can play by rules and can design own rules. | Reciprocal communication and conversations. Takes turns in conversation. |
Developmental stages for fine motor and gross motor skills
| Approx. age | Fine motor skills | Gross motor skills |
| 0-6 months | Turns head and hands to music or movement. Enjoys rattles and mobiles. | Develops head control. Turns head in direction of sound or movement. Can sit propped up. |
| 6-18 months | Explores using mouth. Interested in and explores environment. Makes sounds by banging objects. | Can sit unaided. Can stand and cruise round furniture. Has independent mobility. |
| 18 months-3 years | Can play peek-a-boo. Enjoys cause and effect toys. Beginning to match objects and to sort objects. Enjoys sand and water play. | Prefers to play outdoors or on floor. Benefits by a supportive chair with arms near a table to become involved in mealtimes, or an activity. Bean bags can be helpful. |
| 3-4 years | Enjoys creative aspects, e.g. cooking, playdough, sticking. Can do jigsaws. | Active play — enjoys climbing frame and apparatus and sit- on/push-along/pedal toys. If trying to encourage group circle time activities, a bean bag can be useful for support. |
| 4-5 years | Can build with a range of construction equipment which involves good fine motor skills. | Enjoys floor activities. Works best with a supportive chair with back for table-top activities. |
Developmental stages for skills of pretend play and attention to task
| Approx. age | Pretend play | Attention to task |
| 0-6 months | Responds to sound and movement in view. | Responds to any new sound or movement stimulation. |
| 6-18 months | Initiates actions of others.
Repeats this on own, e.g. feeding teddy. |
Prefers own choice of activity and can become very involved. There can be a difficulty in following an adult-led activity. |
| 18 months-3 year3 | Uses teddy and dolly to perform actions. ‘Pretend‘ objects are evident in play, e.g. make-up and cup of tea to drink using toy cup. | Able to follow adult-led activity. Needs adult to sustain
Concentration. Focuses on one area at a time and can become highly involved. Switching |
| 3-4 years | Can use toys and objects to act out recent events. Becomes very involved in make-believe play such as home corner, shopping etc. | Becoming less easily distracted from adult-led tasks. Can switch attention from one activity to another. Needs to stop activity to listen to instructions. |
| 4-5 years | Uses own imagination for role- play, e.g. fairies, dragons etc. | Can carry out a task and listen to instructions at the same time. |
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